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什麼是愛的跡象 What are The Signs of Love

#178 1998/11/5 印度 新德里

當你愛著一個人時，你看不到他們身上任何的錯，即使發現了錯誤，你也會辯解說：「嗯！這是正常的，每個人都會這麼做。」你會覺得自己為他們做得還不夠，你做得越多，你會想為他們再多做一點。他們總是盤據在你心頭。

一般不足為奇的事都會變得不尋常，舉例來說，嬰兒對著祖母眨眼睛。希望他們是你獨有的。當你愛著某人時，你希望見到他們永遠是快快樂樂的，你希望他們擁有最好的。你甚至會因為一些雞毛蒜皮的小事而受到傷害。

額外33%的知識！(笑聲)

古儒吉：你希望別人擁有他們所沒有的東西，對不對？

回答：對！

古儒吉：當你說「祝你好運」(Best wishes)時，你暗示著他們現在不是最好的。當下，我要告訴你們，當下才是最好的。

如果你體會了這一點，明天頂多只是次好的。

178 WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF LOVE

Weekly Knowledge #178 New Delhi 05 Nov 1998 India

When you love someone you dont see anything wrong in them. Even if you see some fault in them you justify the fault and say Well everyone does it, it is normal. You think you have not done enough for them. The more you do, the more you want to do for them. They are always in your mind. Ordinary things become extraordinary. For eg. A baby winking at grandmother. You want them to be yours exclusively. When you love someone, you want to see them always happy and you want them to have the best . You get hurt even over small things.

33% extra knowledge !!! (Laughter)

Sri Sri: You wish someone of what they dont have ? Right ?

Answer: Yes !

Sri Sri: When you say Best Wishes, you imply that they are not best NOW I tell you,