你跟誰在一起輕鬆？ With Whom are you at ease？
109 1997/07/09 .加拿大 蒙特婁靜心所
你跟誰在一起會真正地感覺到舒服、輕鬆？
跟某個不會質疑你的愛，某個認定你愛他們的人在一起，你會感覺舒服，不是嗎？
假如某人懷疑你的愛，而你又需不斷地證明，這就會成為你頭腦很重的負荷。他們開始質疑你，同時要求你對一切行動作解釋。要解釋你的一切所作所為是負擔。你的本性在卸下負擔，因為負擔會令你覺得不舒服。
當你質疑一個行動背後的原因時，你就在替自己找公道。當你要求公道時，你即製造了距離。你的整個意願在親近，而你卻製造距離。
你是永恆的見證者，你對自己的行動與對別人的行動同樣都是個見證者。當某人要求解釋時，他們是以作為者的角度在溝通，同時也強迫你成為作為者。這造成不舒服感。
既不要要求解釋，他不要解釋。
假如某人只是伴隨你，彷彿你的一部份般，他們不會質疑你。他們就像是你的手臂般，你們有種親密與一體感，那是超越一切要求與疑問的。
109 With Whom Are You At Ease?
Weekly Knowledge #109 Montreal Ashram 09 Jul 1997 Canada
With whom do you feel really comfortable and at ease?
You feel comfortable with someone who does not question your love, someone who takes for granted that you love them. Isn't it?
If someone doubts your love and you constantly have to prove it, this becomes a heavy load on your head.
When someone doubts your love, they start questioning you and demanding explanations for all your actions.
To explain everything you do is a burden. Your nature is to shed the burden, and so you don't feel comfortable.
When you question the reason behind an action, you are asking for justice for yourself. You are creating a distance when you ask for justice. Your whole intention is to come close, but you are creating a distance.
You are a witness to all your actions. You are as much a stranger to your own actions as you are to someone else's. You are the Eternal Witness.
When someone asks for an explanation, they are speaking from doership and imposing that doership on you. This brings discomfort.
If somebody is just there with you, like a part of you, they don't question you. They are like your arm. There is thorough understanding and questions don't arise.
Neither demand an explanation nor give an explanation.
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